What do you think this means?

ok so I like this guy, we work together and it is only just recently I have realised that acctually I like him an awful lot, I know its bad but we went out with a group of our friends a week ago and slept together. Now he texts me all the time, and we went to the cinema the other night and he text me as soon as he left, we joke around and flirt and I just dont know how to read it. I’ve had a lot of problems with guys in the past and I suppose im hoping that he might be different. what would the tell tale signs be if he likes me? thank youuu

Answer #1

You know whenever someone says ‘Im hoping he’ll be different’ it sends up loud, blaring, flashing warning signals. Maybe he was going through something then and now he’s ready. More likely, it’s just who he is. Proceed with caution. With someone who is sending mixed signals, it’s hard to know. The worst part of all of this, you think that you’re going to look stupid. He’s sending the signals. If he then backs out, that’s not your fault. However, I’d be careful with this one. Take your cue from him. And maybe just have the talk. Are we dating, are we seeing other people, are we hanging out. Oh, and seriously figure out what you want and can accept. If you want a relationship and he’s not interested, dont wait around hoping he’ll change his mind. You can find someone else.

Answer #2

thing is I used to hate this guy… and when I say im hoping he’ll be different I mean different from other guys, I’ve had this kinda thing with a guy a long time ago and lets just say we dont talk at all anymore lol x

Answer #3

past experience I would say… dont wanna make myself look like a pratt

Answer #4

Generally texting you a lot and going out with you and flirting are all good signs? I’m guessing with someone else this would be obvious. Why the confusion with this guy?

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