What do you do if your friend has liked a guy but now you like him?

My friend told me that she liked this guy a few weeks ago but she’s also liked this other guy for monthes. And the day before yesterday he started talkin to me, we talked bout music, that kinda stuff. And for some reason out of nowhere I really started to like him. My friend isn’t getting anywhere with this guy though and I’m not sure but I think he might of been flirting with me. I’m starting to really get into tarot cards and they told me that I should go for it (basically) but I really don’t wanna hurt my friend but I really like this guy and in the past 2 years I’ve only really liked a guy once and he moved away (half way acroos the world :’(…) I don’t know what to do. Can someone please please help me???

Answer #1

hoes over bros and bros over hoes…friends are always more important ..

Answer #2

I’ve had this happen to me many times before. When one of us starts dating the guy, the other one gets mad and we fight, then we get over it. Or sometimes we’ll date each others exs, (even though I have never dated any of hers, just kissed one, and liked another, she always dates my exs and she trys to behind my back and I find out, and call her out, but they always break up after a week).

Now, when we both like the same guy, we just talk about it. And if he likes one or both of us, we just see who he asks out first and we vow not to get mad at each other. Or we just find different guys, but one of us always goes back to that one guy. It’s hard when your friend likes the same type of guys that you do. So just try talking it out with her..she might get mad, but just try to calm her down and try to talk about it.

Answer #3

Simple you have 3 choices, 4 if you like the last one… its my favorite. 1 go for it and your friend might feel betrayed. 2 talk to her about it. 3 ask the guy to choose this can back-fire if he says neither and will hurt your friendship. 4 lesbian relationship with your friend then you could share the guy.

Answer #4

Do not do that to your friend ! Friends are more important !!

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