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What do you think of that gal?

She’s in love with a guy who asked her out. But they aren’t in a relationship yet. Then another guy asks her out who’s a close friend. She didn’t say no ‘because he said “hope your answer isn’t no” and she’s so scared that she’d lose that friendship if she says no. So she kept the second guy waiting. And at the same time, she’s having fun with the guy she’s in love with. What do you think of her? Is she like a slut? What would you tell her to do?

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Answer #1

so how should she tell him? like, “no” or “I’m in love with the other guy” or how? thanks a lot for your advice. :)

Answer #2

She should be honest

Tell him that she values his friendship more than anything, but her heart belongs somewhere else

Answer #3

I think she’s leading her friend on, and it’s going to do more damage when the truth comes out

She should have told him to begin with

Answer #4

To the friend, you mean?

Unfortunately, there’s no way to avoid hurt feelings here. Everybody’s got to accept life and all it’s bumps and bruises and this boy is no different.

The longer she waits to tell him, the more it’s going to hurt. If he’s truly a friend who cares about her, he will want her to be happy - regardless if it hurts him. If he becomes angry or bitter, then he wasn’t the friend she thought he was.

Answer #5

Thanks a lot, ichibanarky. I really appreciate your help!

Answer #6

thanks ichibanarky, but she’s in love with her first guy So how should she say no to the second guy without hurting his feelings?

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