What do I tell my 12 year old lil sis after she got fingered?

So, my non biological lil sis is 12 and she was babysitting one night and her boyfriend came over…they went down to her room and started makin out. One thing lead to another and he fingered her…Remember she is only 12! she had just had her first period and is really innocent…what should I tell her?

Answer #1

tell her that she needs to learn about sex before she starts getting sexually active because I assume telling her to stop will go in one ear and out the other tell her to learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

you might also like to tell her parents, also tell her to see a dcotor and go on birth control if she thinks she might have sex

try and make a point of how young she is and also say that it would be best if she waited untill she was a bit older to start doing those things though

Answer #2

That actually depends. If she asked for all that and her boyfriend took the bait, then its sorta her fault and you cant say much about it, but she should still try to stay safe. But if she got persuaded by the guy to do something she didnt want to, then you need to talk to her completely alone. NO parents involved… yet. If you straight up snitch, then you are the bit**yest sister a person could have. Just let her know she should really slow down. Being older makes you able to do a lot of things to your sister, and if you play it cool she will probably listen to you.

Answer #3

tell her to be careful and that she shouldnt do anything else like s*x because she is too young and her body isnt even ready for that yet and now that she got her period she can get pregnant. just give her advice that will protect her. what happend happend so just warn her about things that can happen in the future if she makes wrong decisions.

Answer #4

tell her she needs to not let guys take advantage of her. that even if she thinks he loves her, she needs to tell him no and to set some limits or he’ll be doing worse stuff 2 her next time which will be something very bad. just talk to her. she may be unsure about this herself and just want someone to talk about it wuth. be there for her and help her.

Answer #5

-_- damn girls in my city aint cool like you girls, I have never heard anything like this shes 12!!!

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