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what do I do when me and my boyfriend had a motorcycle accident ?

me and my boyfriend just got in a motorcycle wreck, it wasnt his fault but he thinks it is. his arm is broken, and my hands are just torn up . he’s upset and blames himself, so he left my house and he’s mad at himself and thinks it his fault and he wont talk to me because he thinks I blame him, but I dont at all. what do I do ? ):

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Answer #1

thank you so much, I did what you said and he came over yesterday to talk about it, and he apologized for walking out on me and stuff. thank you !

Answer #2

Text/call/email/etc. him out of the blue something like, “, I know you’re upset about the wreck; I understand. I just don’t understand how it could be your fault. It seems like you’re afraid I’ll be angry and blame you, but in my eyes that is out of the question. Accidents happen, and I love you too much to let something that was completely out of your control get in between us. I hope you see where I’m coming from; everything will be just fine, .” And maybe an extra ‘I love you.’ at the end. :) This might put his fears at ease and help him back into feeling back to normal.

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