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What do I do when I don't like a guy who likes me?

There’s this guy I sit next to in Homeroom. He’s nice and sweet but I’ve never been one to fall for guys. He talks to me, he draws pictures for me, he brings stuff to me even though I don’t ask. He always stares at me. This has been going on for months. I don’t like him that way. I don’t want him to act so flirty and sweet then realize all of the sudden that I don’t like him. I don’t want to hurt him but I don’t want to use him. What do I do?

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Answer #1

a guy did the exact same thing to me…he stared at me in class and always flirted with me. it was hard not to “flirt” back, it kinda feels like your just being nice to him but im sure hes taking it as flirting. in my situation, I told him that I had a crush on a different guy, and he immediately stopped flirting with me. we were still friends for a while, but then it faded and he didnt really talk to me anymore. if he stops talking to you after he knows you like someone else or are dating someone, then hes not a real friend. he eventually got his own girlfriend and we moved on.

Answer #2

aww aint you a sweet…

just let him know that he makes you feel uncomfatable with what hes doing…

a true friend wont take it the wrong way and will respect your wishes :)

Answer #3

Just let him know that you think he’s a good person but you’re just not interested in him that way.

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