Should I speak to him after our fight?

Im in love with this lad…who really likes me 2…We’ve been dating but las sat we broke up because he sed somethin which was kinda nasty and I went moody wiv him…((he gets bad mood swings and so do I))…I havent spoke 2 him since and he keeps telling my friends 2 aske me speak 2 him or where I am…should I speak 2 him and what shud I say?? because it was his fault why we broke up and it really hurts not bein with him…<//3

Answer #1

Hello - If you miss him and need him in your life, then you should definitely call him. Discuss your feelings openly, rather than giving him the silent treatment. He is obviously thinking about you…Inform him that his comment hurt you. If he cares about you, he should apologize. That would be the right thing to do. However, you need to apologize to him for ignoring him also. You are both at fault for allowing four days to go by and not resolving the problem constructively. If you don’t call him - he will believe that you no longer want him in your life. He’s afraid to call you..so you obviously need to be the bigger person. Hope this helps!

Answer #2

It kinda sucks that both of you have bad mood swings, but it also helps you, or at least it should, realize that both of you are at fault. Obviously, both of you miss each other and the fact that you haven’t cleared this issue out hasn’t helped your case, has it? Sometimes people say things that they don’t really mean to say. I bet you’ve done the same at some point in your life. I think everyone has. The next thing you know you regret saying it. That’s probably how he feels. Call him up, tell him that you need to talk to him. Let him know that his comment offended you and I’m sure that he’ll apologize. I’m sure you guys will work it out.

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