What do I do if my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend?

Okaii so I whent out with this guy for about 2-3 months :) and then we plit up, but we still flirt and he asked me back out but I said I dont know but I still really love him. But yesturday I found out what my close friend asked my ex boyfreand out :s . And he said yes, I feel very sad and jelous and angry. What shall I do please help me ! I just think thats wrong for my friend going out with my ex boyfriend .

Answer #1

Mikeh- I totally do not agree with you, there are rules and boundries if you are TRUE FRIENDS. Regardless of the length of the relationship or the reason for splitting up, it is NOT okay for your close friend or anyone you consider a friend to date your Ex. So if she is, then she is NOT your true friend and I think you should find a better friend. qazw I think you should just really do your best to pretend like you don’t care and not trust that friend any longer or really ever speak to her again. One of my really close friends dated my very first real boyfriend of a year and half right after we broke up and she thought she was doing nothing wrong, but she cleary was and obviously had been crushing on my boyfriend the whole relationship and not only that did EVERYTHING she could in her power to make me look bad…so you don’t want those types of conniving people in your life I am sure you can do better!

Answer #2

I think your friend should have at least asked you if you were ok with it. My best friend just went out with my ex girlfriend and noone asked me if I was ok. And then a couple of weeks later he said he was upset because we were flirting. And I said that I was upset when you asked her out. I was upset and still am when I see you together and see you kiss. But noone f*cking cared. It’s been about 4 months since we broke up and to this day I am still uncomfortable with it. Let your friend know that you are upset. I am going through the same thing you are. Good luck

Answer #3

I mean if he’s your ex then just deal with him. Tell your friend that your in love with him. I’ve been through similar things and at the end both of ya will end up in a big fight over a guy. Girl just move on he’s your ex for a reason. Trust me it doesn’t work out when your ex goes out with a close friend it’s kind of akward..

Answer #4

there is not much you can do, it probably won’t last so don’t worry about it. but if he would go out with your friend, then he probably isn’t worth your time.

Answer #5

Generally, people like to avoid the inevitable awkward situations that arise by dating their friend’s exes, but it’s not against the rules. As for what you should do: grin and bear it. You had your chance with him. Twice, actually. You made the choice not to be with him, and now you need to live with the consequences of that choice. If you can’t bear to see the two of them together without inappropriate romantic feelings for him welling to the surface, be a grown-up and avoid them.

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