What do I do if my cousin actually likes me???

I’m turning 18soon, he’s a year older. We’ve always been close but I don’t really know what kinda ‘close’ we are to him. I never really looked or took the way my cousin actted towards me as an ACTUAL attraction. He’s not very social, only with people in our family (and even then he’s shy) or with people in his religion that he meets at meetings or bible gatherings. He’s never really had real relationship with a girl.

He’s really close with me… Ex: he’ll hug me any chance he gets, holds me, kisses my cheek, tries to hold my hand, puts his arm around me, slaps my ass, tells me I’m pretty or hot or likes my outfit.

We hang out when we can. He’ll ask me if I wanna hang out so we’ll go somewhere or to the movies. We talked last night and he asked what my plans were for the rest of the break, I told him nm so he asked of we could hang out. I said sure what yea wanna do? He told me we should go to the movies to see Avatar. So I said “sounds good, but I thought you’ve seen it already?” and he said “yeah but it was good and it means I’ll get to spend time with you.” the rest of it went like this: Me- awh, well sounds like fun him- great it’s a date XD me- uhm Kay, well what kinda date we talkin about? Him- what ever kinda date you want it to be me- I see what are we doing on this ‘date’? Him- well I’ll take you to this new Japanese resturaunt I want to go to for a nice romantic dinner the to a late show. Me- uhm ok.

I really don’t know what to think. My boyfriend was talking to me while I was talking to my cousin and laughed and told me my cousin on hitting on me and LIKES me.

I dint know what to do… It’s not like I can just come out and ask my cousin if he ‘likes’ me… If he doesn’t it’ll be akward and he may think I like him:s or if he doesn’t then again it’ll be akward cause I won’t know how exactly I should handle it… Well I mean I would talk to him about it honestly…

Hmmm. Please help, thanks.

Answer #1

hahahhaaha that sucks, cancel the date and tell him go away your my cousin, when he leans in to kiss you goodbye or hug you leans awat from him like you think hes dirty :P well you know he kinda is… ewww hahhaha my side still hurts cant stop laughing :) good luck with this!

Answer #2

Janna you know I love you but the next time I see you im gonna kill you! Lmao

Answer #3

1: I think he is probably gay if he does that OR he is just kinda sick if he’s over the age of ten and likes his cousin that is kinda wrong if he goes to church and stuff like that so im sorry but he’s a sick basterd and needs help.

Answer #4

it does kinda sound like he likes you. I think you should just go on your little date, but cancel dinner, and just go to the movies instead. see what happens, and if he makes a move or anything, call him on it and tell him straight up that you guys are family and you have a boyfriend.

Answer #5

you need to tell you because…that you dont think of him that way…and that your ARE FAMILY!!!you have a boyfriend anyways…and canel the date…that’s creepy…drop what you hvae now…I think we should not hang out anymore…that’s what I’d say…sounds like he’s a freak…And you boyfriend should hvae stood up…for you.

Answer #6

You need to sit him down and tell him that you don’t have feelings like that for him. That you are family and it doesn’t go beyond that.

Remind him that you do have a boyfriend that you love very much.

If he continues to make you uncomfortable, you should talk to your parents or his.

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