I cheated on my boyfriend, what should I do now?

tell him because no one wants to be in a relationship with soemone not nowing that they cheated on them how would you feel if your boyfreind cheated on you and never told you? crap I would imagine at least when you tell him he can decide wether he still wants to be in a relationship or not

tell him before he finds out from someone else. what happens in the end will all be for the best no matter how hard it is… theres more than 1 amazingly awsum guy in the world. just hope he isn’t the type of guy that over exagurates.

All these people who say dont tell is full of crap. Tell him…seriously. If he was to find out from someone else he would hate you for lying and never trust you again. If he is so amazing you will tell him the truth. If you love him you will tell him the truth. Its really the best thing you can do.

I highly suggest you dont tell him. You have to live with this guilt and move on. It’s tough but you will destroy him if you tell him, and your relationship will fail, and you will change his view of girls forever.

He will starting to hate girls, and use them as objects, and become a jerk.

Well, it’s better to just tell him, I mean, wouldn’t it be really bad if he found out from someone else…? Just come out and say that you didn’t mean to but you didn’t wanna lie to him or have him find out from someone else. I know it’s easier said then done but still… (trust me, I did the same thing, and my boyfriend still trust me, and he loves me for telling him the truth)

I cheated on my boyfriend once, but it was 13 days after we started dating. I told him about it 2 days later, was completely honest about who it was with, but of course didn’t tell him what I did exactly :P he was mad for maybe a day, and then he was done being mad and said we would stay together. thank goodness he did, because here we are over a year later madly in love ;) just tell him. give him any information he asks, but DON’T tell him you had feelings for the other guy or he won’t stay. my boyfriend told me just about a month ago that if he would have known that at the time he wouldn’t have stayed.

and most importantly -> DON’T EVER DO THAT TO ANYONE EVER AGAIN. people make mistakes, but it’s not a fair mistake to make.

tell him that it was a mistake and you didnt mean to do that and your never gonna talk to that other guy agian and dont lie about it I would rather my woman cheat on me than lie to me because cheating can be stopped if your honest with your man afterward and I dont just mean about cheating make him feel like he can trust you and you have to be sure he can trust you just ask your self if you can leave your cell next to him while you leave the room for any thing and I know girls dont like guys going through their phones but if he does and doesnt find anything he wont do it again unless he gets suspicious of something

I agree. DONT TELL.

If you’re putting yourself in situations where you’re going to cheat – and can we dispense with the idea that you never intended to? You purposefully maneuvered to be with this other guy, damn the consequences – then it doesn’t matter how amazingly awesome your boyfriend is, you still want something more.

I don’t believe that there are those people who cheat and those who don’t. I believe that those people who cheat are not being honest, with themselves and their partners, with what they want in a relationship. There is something about the Other Boy you’re drawn to. Figure out what it is.

And telling your boyfriend what you did will accomplish nothing but relieve your guilt, making him feel like crap. It’s a selfish move. Keep it to yourself.