What do I do about my boyfriend?

Okay so…I have been with this guy for 9 months. In the first couple months my parents were sort of okay with it then …my brothers went thru my email and found messages between us about fingering and being on top ..but I promise you we were just playing… im a virgin. okay so then I cudnt talk to him for a little bit..well…then he took his dads car to come see me and I snuck out one night. Then the smmer came. its been like 4 months and then I got in trouble with drnking and my parents found an email between us about him taking the car. and I got grounded for two months for that. well he was in europe. and then cali so I talked to him once maybe..well we are still together..and still head over heals for eachother. well we are back in school at this time and I saw in for the first time ever in 3 months…=] ..welll…my parents still despised him. then..homecomingg came around.. he wasnt supposed to go and that was one reason I was allowed to go. well he surprised me there. and that night he talked to my mom and apoligized. well then she was still negative about stuff but a little better then before. now…its been like 6 or 7 months. we cant see eachother on the weekeneds.. and maybe a total of ten minutes each day..=[ then my mom went with me to his moms house for a bbq and she said she liked the family and it was a good environment. its been 9 months and things havent changed. my whole family says its just puppy love…and I don’t know what to do..he wants me to keep holding on and I want to be with him sooo badly… but I keep wondering…if he really is going to hurt me or my family is just saying it because they are upset with everything that has happened…help please? I need some serious advice. I am in love with this kid. and I dont want to hear that I am too young to fall in love.. and think I have handled it pretty well for a 14 year old.