What do I do about lingering feelings for my ex...should I c him?

So there is a complicated story about why me and my ex broke up but like now I really miss him .. We have talked about seeing each other because we miss each other …but I dont want to get back with him because feel like I would just be saying what he did to me was ok. So basically…im wondering should I go see him? I know the night is going to end with kissing and fooling around and that is why I dont want to see him but… I still really do.

He tells me that he still really loves me…but does he?

Answer #1

Haha, wow. No you should not see him. I dont care what he says - when you truly love someone you do not cheat on them - at all. Do not talk to him.

Answer #2

I have absolutely no experience. But.

If you loved him, why did you break up with him in the first place?

Sorry =P

Answer #3

well I think you should go see him I go back and fourth with my ex all the tyme he was mi 1st love and he always be my bestfriend and we do still love eachotha even though he did me wrong I did him wrong I still got feelings 4 gim just go see and see how eveything work out

good luck

Answer #4

the reason we broke up is because he cheated on me with a 15 year old…or was seeing her…he is 19 and then he had cheated on all his other girlfriends before me… he promised that he would never do me like that and that was the old him and that he loved me and hes never loved a girl like he loves me… but ionno …u dont cheat on people you love…but thats just my opinion. I stopped talkin to him for a while but then we started talkin again and like you said mandyloo I remember all the fun we had…and I know that I dont want to get back together with him and I like bein single but I do want to see him but I know that if I kiss him I would feel bad and it would ust complicate things. I dont know for sure if I see him that I will be able to NOT kiss him or whatever you know I dont want to make things difficult

Answer #5

Why did y’all break up?

Whenever you have broken up with someone, you tend to forget the bad things that happened and remember the good memories. What you need to remember is that there was a reason for you breaking up. Getting back together will bring all of those old problems back into your life - you dont just get back together and everything is perfect.

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