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I have an ex girlfriend, we broke up about 8 months ago, after a 8 year relationship, We both moved to a new place by coincidence it just happened to be the same city. I have seen here quite a bit since we moved and have found that I am still very much in love with her, but she says she is over me and doesn’t want to have that type of relationship with me anymore. We have slept with each other a few times and still catch up often since we broken up, I am so confused and finding myself thinking about her all the time. I ideally would love her back but she says she doesn’t want to, however when ever she sees me she hugs me and kisses me or will cook a nice dinner or do some thing nice for me. What do I do, I want to move on but its so hard to let go? I wonder if she will change her mind, and if I move on will it be too late? I was her first boyfriend, do you think she is just wanting to explorer and find different people to be with, I can tell she still loves me even though she says she is over me.
It Depends a little on why you broke up. But you should try to let go a little, date some other people. You might meet someone you like better than her or maybe after some time she’ll come around and you two can be together again. Sorry if I’m not much help but good luck
She doesnt love you, you are just her comfort zone. You cant possibly get over someone you are still sleeping with. She says shes over you, so the best thing you need to do is take care of yourself first, and stop ALL contact with her. Sleeping with her isnt going to change her mind. For you, its only going to want her more. You both had 8 years together, but its time to realize that it wasnt meant to be, and its over!
- SEX HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVE OR COMMITMENT. IT FEELS GOOD, AND ITS SAFE TO SLEEP WITH YOU. YOU ARE A “KNOWN” QUANTITY AND ITS EASIER THAN BUYING A DRINK FOR A STRANGER AND HOPING TO GET LUCKY.*
Most people say that once you love someone, you never really stop loving that person. Your ex girlfriend might be having the same problem, she’s unsure of what to do in her life right now and may be confused about what to do next. She may want to be with you again, but her fear of getting hurt is just to strong. Give her some space, and time. Let her know your there when she’s in troubling times, and needs some help. Try not to focus your attention on just her either, start dating other girls; play the field a little. She might be doing the same thing just to experience a little more. She might come running back to you and she might not, but for now just show her that you will be a loyal friend.
If you did something stupid…like my ex boyfriend… the yea she might still love you but she doesn’t want to get hurt…their forshe will not go back out with you. If you give her some time stop trying to get her to go out with you and wait awhile the ask her out to something like dinner and a movie or something like that. Start out slow.
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