What did my girlfriend mean?

Ok se we were planning on going to the bathroom and kiss in private we were at school so before that I was picking my stuff up and she got in front of me and I was like oh hey babe and she always asks me why do I treat her sometimes like a lil girl and I told her im just messin so she then says ok then are we gonna go kiss? and I said yeah after class oh lets go now I gotta pee and I was like ok? so since im a lil girl I need your help putting my pants down . so then I didnt know what to say and I said ok? and she asked… woudl you and I just said yeah. was she serious or what? I know this could lead to sex I don’t know im only 15 but I ask because I don’t know if she meant ti like that and if its a sign that she wants to take the next big step in our relationship…

Answer #1

Hey babe. Okay well I probably think she was jk? because no1 wants their boyfriend 2 see them piss? Lol. But she probably would have sex wit you if you ask. But dont just be like “oh can we have sex”. Lol just txt her or something and be like oh how far would you go wit me jw?

Xoxobyeee

Answer #2

possible she either meant it as sex or it is possible she was patronizing you too. just because you were asked why do you treat me like a little girl maybe she was being sarcastic and said can you help me pull my pants down. its all about the tone she said it in. lol tells you a lot man beleive it or not. but as she said above me hopfully you guys arent too far ahead in this relashonship because going from kissing in the bathroom to having sex is a hell of a fucking leap

Answer #3

Guys don’t have to be embarassed to say they aren’t ready yet. If you think you aren’t ready then just tell her I’m sure she’d understand…I think it’s more mature to sit down with each other and research the consequences and ways to prevent pregnancy and STD’s together so you both are comfortable with taking the next step. You never know though she may just want to do oral stuff and explore each others bodies you know (if you haven’t already).

Answer #4

Thanks you all helped il talk to her XD it is a big step

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