What did I do wrong to make everyone against me?

On a social site, I stated a harmless fact which I thought was funny but it wasn’t good for vegetarians. There’s this girl who used to be my friend but she stole my boyfriend, made me do whole group assignments by myself and she stole some of my money. She’s a vegetarian and she started saying stuff to make me feel guilty or something, I don’t know. Well, my boyfriend at that time was at her house (she likes guys who aren’t single) and he went her side. He wasn’t even a vegetarian or anything. And he was my boyfriend! The whole thing went from my fact to him calling me a slut because I did something for his friend which he asked me to do. I told him that the relationship was over even though I still loved him, but I couldn’t be with someone who has so little respect for my feelings. Then he made fun of me because the only other guy who likes me apparently is a guy who most people hate but I like and apparently that guy has a “micropenis” or something which is ridiculous and the last of my concerns! Now, I have only one friend who lives way too far away, my ex’s new girlfriend is bringing random people who I don’t even know against me, no one is listening to my side and I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

Answer #1

You know what? The people who were considered cool in high school hardly ever turn out to be that great as adults.

First off - this ex-boyfriend of yours sounds like a guy who has zero confidence in himself, and the same goes to the girl who turned against you (and who also goes for other girls’ boyfriends and cheats on her homework). They sound like they were made for each other :)

If I were you, I’d take pity on them for the fact that they are so immature and nasty. When they grow up they’ll probably apologize, but until then, you gotta be confident in yourself and don’t let anyone try to change that. Go about your business as if you don’t have a care in the world. You may feel bad inside but don’t show them ‘cause they’ll feed off it. Go join some clubs and make new friends.

I bet that the guy who likes you and who the others claim to hate is someone whose confidence intimidates the others. He may seem like an outsider because he really doesn’t care what other people think of him, and so they try to belittle him and make him feel ‘bad’. They’re bullies, and it looks like he’s not buying it, and neither should you.

I just wish I could show you your future so that you could see that these people will be meaningless footnotes in your epic life!

Be strong and don’t let them get you down!

Answer #2

Okay. Thank you helping me. I’ll give him a try because he’s really nice to me and I guess I have some friends over here, not much but I’ll just try.

Answer #3

Hun your still yong… Boys will come and go.. so will friends… If they don’t like you for who you are then I wouldn’t call them friends… Just ignor them and soon enough it will past… And that guy who likes you and everyone hates give it a try and maybe you’ll like him back… don’t care what other people say… Just take a risk…

Answer #4

But the thing is that all I did was state one fact so I don’t know what to apologize for. And she wouldn’t want to see me in person.

Answer #5

Aww I am sorry that is horrible so what you have to do is agree with or you call her some bad names I mean your choice you can say I am wrong I did that and blah blah tell her off in person thats what I would do

Answer #6

I say you just wait for them to get over it, transfer schools, or find some new friends. I’m sorry, it sounds like a sucky situation. I hope everything goes good for you, and I really sympthasize with you.

Answer #7

I go to a private school and there’s only 20 people in my grade. And my parents are divorced and my dad can’t move me to a new school at the moment so I’m pretty much stuck.

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