What could I do?

Im 14 and my boyfriend is 17. I dont want to have sex yet because I think im to young. He says he understands, but I still want to do something like 4 play or oral sex to him because he has to wait on me for a long time. I dont think it would bother me to do something with him. but what could I do? what is exceptable to do to him at the age of 14?

Answer #1

nothing really besides kissing…well you kan have him finger you!<<–which is awsum! well I mean it depends on what type of qurl you are. msg me ill help you

Answer #2

I know he doesnt want to have sex. me and him made a promise to god that we wouldnt until we were married.we both wear purity rings. but I stillwant him to be pleased. I know he wont leave me just because of sex

Answer #3

Well, honestly its up to you. Don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing. An honestly, foreplay is called foreplay because it leads to sex. If he says he’ll wait then he should hold to his word. Don’t feel like you have to do anything because you don’t. It’s a personal choice. No one can really tell you what to do. So follow your heart. Sexual acts make things a lot more complicated. And he’s 17… His sex drive is going crazy and eventually he’ll move on to someone who will have sex with him. It’s not worth it. The odds of your relationship lasting for a long time are slim. Especially when he graduates. Trust me. I lost my virginity at 14.

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