What can me and my boyfriend talk about?

Everytime me and him talk on the phone, we talk about NOTHING. We listen to each other breathe. He always says: What do you want to talk about? And I say the same thing. What are some things to talk about? And why do we never have anything to talk about?

Answer #1

just ask each other questions back and forth and see what they say. think of anythin. me and my boyfriend have been datin for a year and it still works. hahaha

Answer #2

You know what I say thats a ice breaker or breaking the ice.Just say how about them dodgers?Ah ha ha its funny!I was like that with my boyfriend to then after that he just started laughing and said well I’m not really a baseball person or I wouldn’t know.Or you can say there name in a cute whiny way that always works!LOL

Answer #3

we’ve been dating over 2 years. and we do have some things in common. and I dont really get nervous. we talk about our day & what we’ve done, but after that, we talk about nothing!

Answer #4

maybe its bc you guys get nervous… or maybe you dont have much in common… but in most cases people are just nervous. talk abt your day, or things that you dont know abt each other, and things that you want to.

hope I helped.=)

Answer #5

Me and my exboyfriend used to conversate about the weirdest things; Questions that we both had for Life. For example, “Why is there a sponge in the ocean on Spongebob Squarepants and why the heck does he live in a pineapple?” Lol. Yes, I know it sounds kiddish but at least we’re talking about something. Just see what’s on your mind and say it, let him know. (=

Answer #6

I have the same problem, but I think it helps to bring up times when you uys have hung out you can talk about how much fun it was or how you felt about it or how he felt about it.. ask him what’s new with him, how he’s feeling, what hes thinkin bout, my boyfriend always asks me what I wanna do most right now.. that can be interesting.. lolz.. when there is nothing being said I usually start asking tonz of totally random questions. just anything.. like his favorites of things or funny memories or about what he likes to do or some of his opinions on random stuff.. just talk about whats on your mind.. sometimes you can ask him serious questions about your like how long he thins you will last or how he feels about you.. sometimes its nice for both of us to tell each other like 5 reasons we love each other.. there is so much in the world to say you just gotta stop worryin about it and let the conversation come naturally.. you can;t have a good romantic relationship unless you are good friends too

Answer #7

well I hve da EXACT same problem. so cant really help ya. lol but you cud ask him how his day was or tlk about stuff you both enjoy :) goodluck!

Answer #8

I don’t have a boyfriend, atm. but I have this kindof lover. if you will haha. But I’m only 14. I havn’t rlee spoken to him on the phone before, Because we only just started to Yaknow… be all (L) But on msn we can talk for about 9 hours straight. we never really get the casual you ok, what you up too shitty convo, He’s so easy to talk too. & tbh I find that not having amazing amounts in comman is agood thing. But he has a personality that I like, but wouldn’t take on myself. There for, when I ask him whats on his mind, and if he says something about I dno. His band. I’ll ask him about it. & listen to what he has to say. & a populer thing I like playing on the phone is. My version of 20Q.it’s like. Truth and dare, only without the dare. And you have to ask eachother20 Q taking it in turns. & you HAVE to tell the truth. So for example. “ you have one wish, what would it be?” & if he says something like.. Be a famous footballer, Be like why. etc yaknow ? Talk about your day. His friends. Any problems he is having. & then talk about whats on your mind, see if he can help. & if your really close, You can talk about the future, or the next time you meet what do yo wanna do ? hope it helps x

Answer #9

well sometimes things between me and my boyfriend gets really awkward so I start to talk about playful activities like games things that can be related to his point of view,religion,thoughts on the future what we might look like in the future,will we still be attrached to each other what kind of music he listens,would he want to explore other places than where you and him are corrently living right now,whats his preferrence on a extented faimily when we get older,does he really love me from is heart and not his mind because some guys will tell you that they love you but is only an thoughts that they thing you want to here ask him all these stuff ask him stuff that you both can have in common that might be an jk to you both,ask what make him laugh the most,how does he feel when he is around you and hold you good luck to you all:-)

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