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What are your views when an older guy likes a younger girl?

Everyone says that the older guy only uses the girl just to get some easy loving, is that always true? Im talking 19 year old versus 14 year old girl. And yes it s not legal, but it does happen, and im not talking about me, im thinking of other people and what they have told me. Isnt there a chance that the guy does really does like her? Im getting sick of seeing all these questions about this kind of stuff and everyone is like, “hes only using you.”

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Answer #1

the first thing people are gonna see is the age difference. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 its not legal therefore my friends are always complaining to me about it. I cant tell you how many times I’ve been told he was “using” me. but the thing is everytime we hang out he respects me and we’ve been going out for awhile and he hasnt gotten sex yet haha but he still stays around, he talks about a future between us and everything. I’ve been told I was naive so many times, but that proves not all guys are just trying to use a girl. but dont get me wrong there are some that only want one thing and go to younger girls to get it. it all depends on the guy. but yea I believe than can actually like a younger girl

Answer #2

to tell you the truth im with a 26 year old guy my doctor I just really like him I think you should go do it but dont have sex with her yu dont wanna be sued

Answer #3

I’m sorry I dont want to sound patronizing, but when you get older you’ll get it. I dont understand what an adult wants with a kid. No matter how grown up a teenager feels, they’re still kids… and unless he wants sex, I dont see what he could possibly want… And the difference between 15 and 18 is not the same as 14 and 19, they’re not even likely to be in school at the same time together with that gap…

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