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what am I supose to do I need some help ?

ok my girlfriend really wasnt to have sex with me but she is so scared that shell get prego and she has a really bad life and she is afraid that her dad will beat her how can I convince her that it will be ok and ill never let anyone hurt her? please help me

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Answer #1

well I talked to her today and I gess I had it wrong she told me she’s not scared of her dad she just thinks that she dont look good and I try to protect her from everything that I can but I cant even get her away from her dad till next summer

Answer #2

4 1 say that ..not to worry as long as yur with me no1 will hurt you or something like that and tell her it will be ok ill wear a condom,,,I know they arent a 100% but they still work

Answer #3

If your girlfriend has a really bad life and is being abused at home (I’m assuming this because you mention her dad will beat her), you guys should be worrying about getting her out of the situation she’s currently in. Not so much about sex.

If she’s in a bad situation right now, the fact is that you CAN’T be there 100% of the time to protect her. She knows this, and this is why she’s saying no right now. You need to respect that and see if there’s any way you can help her out. Not for sexual gratification, but to actually keep her safe.

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