I don't suggest any of what everyone else is saying...there is a lot of men who seem to think women are on those sites alot, so they....play the snake game.
Skype ovoo meebo and msn yahoo gtalk any messenger system now has a video conference feature even my phone has it.
If you don't mind installing, you could use skype, windows live messenger, or yahoo messenger.
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you can use ovoo