Okay me and mt girlfriend are going to have sex but I dont want her to get pregnat how safe are condoms by the way its our first ?
it may seem a little awkward. make sure you don't get caught. dont do it bc others are doing it. do it bc you want to. use latex. and if you have a feeling you might be "cumming", pull out so you dont get her prego.
just be safe and do a little research
ask her about what she thinks about birth control but I still would use a condom
it is 97% good but all condoms are not all good good luck on your 1st time