Should I get an abortion for my boyfriend?

If you were pregnant and you told your boyfriend but he doesn’t look too happy about it, what would you do? What if you going to about to be 4 months and still didn’t tell your mother? What if your boyfriend wants an abortion but you don’t but you going to do it anyways just for him…what would you do?

Answer #1

we have been waiting for 5 years to have a child and cant have any if you are thinking the whole adoption thing I would love to talk to you shelleycrews@telus.net

Answer #2

na you should murder your unborn child just because your boyfriend or your mom is upset, its not right to kill your baby if you dont wwant it have it anyway and give it up for adoption

Answer #3

well the same thing happend to my sister that now has a 19 month old baby boy. she was 18 when she was pregnant. my sister b/f that she luved so much was really cool about having the baby but then when she told my family at 6 months(besides me i knew at three months) then her b/f had second thoughts and didnt want the baby and started taking pills and everthing so she isnt with him. but i think that that u should have the baby and dont wory bout your b/f cuz if he really cared about u he will come around at point of the preg. and i would tell your mom really soon.

**also sum advice but u may not have this prob. if u have a little sister that is like 10-14 and u guys r really close make sure that is the first one in the family u tell and make sure u tell her very gently and everything cuz if she is the way i am with my sister she will b really sad and probaly will hate u threw out the whole preg. also if u do have a little sis and the baby is sapose to born around her birthday make sure u dont joke around and say that the baby is going to b born on her birthday cuz she willl get really pised!!!

Answer #4

NO, you will regret it for the rest of your life…..

Sooner or later your child will give you happiness.

Answer #5

Well if you want to have it then you have it.But you also have to think about what if you have it will he help because you didn’t have that baby byself so therefore you shouldn’t have to rise it by yourself but you should tell your mother and talk it over with your boyfriend soo that he can see where you’ll coming from and how you really do feel

Answer #6

I wouldnt give a rats what my bf thinks! this is your body…your choice! if you want this baby then you have this baby, but you need to tell your mother as soon as possible becos if you are 4 months along already your going to start to show soon, and to have an abortion you need to have it done within 3 months of 1st becoming pregnant so if you are already 4 its to late for an abortion. Go get a check up at your doctor. But you do what you want to do, not what your bf wants.

Answer #7

Well first of all, i think that if u and him had sex, and he didnt think of the coniquences then its his fault for not expecting a baby. I really dont knwo what to do about not telling your mom, i mean if it was me, i would tell her and she what she thought, i mean she could help you through your pregnancy, i mean she was pregnant once. And if your boyfriend wants to kill the baby that you and him made together, thats his problem, but the final decision is up to you, no one can make u do anything. I wouldnt do it(have the abortion) but like i said the final decision is up to you.

Answer #8

I was not married when I got pregnant, I knew the consequences. Now it is my responsibility to take care of my child. Before you do anything, talk to your parents. You may find that the shock and disappointment won’t last long. Maybe like me, almost 16 years later, your mother(grandma) will be going with you to help pick out the first prom dress(or tux…lol). Either way talk to your parents first, even adoption may be an option.

Think about this…when you are older and do get married and have a baby, can you look at that baby and not think “you could have had a brother or sister” without it hurting you. I am not being mean, I am a pro lifer, but my best thinks about that everyday of her life.

Good luck and talk to your parents.

Answer #9

NO! if you want to keep your baby DONT LET HIM BE PART OF YOUR CHOICE!! if hes not going to be there for you tehn whatever… my dad told my mom to get an abortion with me… and she didnt… I don’t know me bieng a person… and having that almost happen to me… I can understand…

Answer #10

keep your baby tell your mom yell at him who cares wat your bf says hes just not ready to be a dad :)

Answer #11

I dont think you should get an abortion because your the mom..and guys just want it easy for them.I regret every day having an abortion..i did it because i was jobless going to school and my boyfriend only got back with me if i had an abortion.Making your boyfriend happy is not worth a lifetime regret.Its not your babies fault the dad doesnt want it..Do you think is fair if a special ed kid that cant defend himself is killed? only because it cant defend himself? NO his a child of god..i wish i could go back in time and nver had it..Now i feel like a killer.Its totally wrong having an abortion..I was just stupid and confused

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