what do I do..

well, its a long story…I have been with ths guy for 4 years.. our marriage was also decided by our parents..it would have been a love marriage..but 2 years ago he got a job at the ITsector in another state.well he comes to visit his family and me every 5 months.bt lately, he has started behaving very badly with me and he also said that he wants to call off the marriage..I had tried enough to talk 2 him and find out the reason but he says that I m the reason..he wants to say that he doesnt like talking to me and I shouldnt disturb him by calling him up..he had always been a short tempered man and gts mad at little things..I have always tried to make him happy by doing what he wants bt I don’t understand why he doesnt understand my feelings… I really love him very much and cant imagine my life widout him. I don’t want to loose him bt I don’t find a way to bring hm back 2 me..he even asked me 2 get married 2 another man,,but thats next 2 impossible for me..I cant love anybody else.. please help me find a solution..what should I do???SOS