was she being selfish or just doesnt care?

okay last nite I was on the floor w/ my laptop typeing up something and I fellasleep and this morning when my dad woke me up the laptop was put up and cut off which means my stuff never saved after I typed it up so obviously my sister put it up BUT..thats not the prob the prob is she put the laptop up then left me on the floor w/o wakeing me up and telling me to get in the bed or nothing and everytime she falls asleep on the couch I wake her up in the mornings before I go 2 school and tell her to get in the bed but the one time I fall asleep she only cares about herself and does nothing..What should I do??And was she being selfish or what???

SOORRYYY ITS SOO LONNG YALL

Answer #1

Maybe she didn’t wake you up because she thought you looked really comfortable and didn’t want to disturb you. As for the computer, she probably didnt mean to delete it.

Answer #2

I would but she is 22 y/o and outa school but good ideas

Answer #3

I’m sorry, I would be furious with my sister if she did that I would get revenge…like spill juice all over her home work or math binder hahahaha or mabey throw an importent school project away haha… but that’s just me I don’t know about u

Answer #4

If she only cares about herself then perhaps you need to stop expecting things from her. There is no law in life that forces people who are related to care about each other and to take care of each other. Yes, it happens a lot of the time. But it also does not happen a lot of the time. She probably did not mean to delete the stuff you typed up. Let that be a lesson in clicking the save button every 5-10 minutes so you dont lose too much. However, if she is selfish and she doesnt care, then what can you do about that? Move on and let it go. Just because you do things for her does not mean she has to do things for you. If it bothers you that much, then stop doing things for her. Otherwise continue to do them without expecting reciprocation.

Answer #5

yeah she put the lap top away but she deleted all of my stuff that I typed up w/o telling me..im not testing anything you dont know her like I do all she doest is care about herself its so frigin annoyin

Answer #6

At least she put the laptop away. I really wouldnt make this into a bigger deal than it is. Just tell her that you’d like her to wake you up next time. This really shouldnt be a test of her love for you.

Answer #7

I did I said why did you put the computer up and leave me on the floor w/o wakeing me up or sum

she said Uhh ohh iii…and thats it

Answer #8

I think you should talk to her and ask her if she really cares about you. Maybe she didn’t realize that you would even notice it. You should have talk with your sister.

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