Was I wrong?

Well there’s this girl that I HATE because of a rumor she spread about me (actually it branched out into multiple rumors) because I trusted her, and now she wants 2 b my friend on fb. Well, I messaged her saying that I would never b her friend after what she did to me, and she asked what. So, long story short, she denies even knowing about this crap. If she didnt do it, then it completely changes my view towards her, as I tend to hold grudges for a LONG time, and sometimes might even end up liking that person (always as a friend, this is the first time a girl has done me serious wrong). This girl is, well, a flirter.. most of the guys in the grade are infatuated with her. She tends to gossip, lie, and b, well, not nice a lot lol. Do I trust her? Should I give her a chance? I dont like hating people… But this rumor literally ruined my life like no joke, over half my grade hates me because of it. I don’t know what to do… ik 2 wrongs dont make a right but was this just too much to forgive? And if she’s lying, then well, im screwed so… ???

Answer #1

what was the rumor

Answer #2

I guess its just who she is… mayb she hates me… but she’s been known to spread some before but tis is the biggest one… and ik grudges are bad but well, I cant let it go… I don’t know why but I never can

Answer #3

Well my friend, having a grudge on someone is definitely not going to make things better. Its not going to do anything to her just you. But why did she spread rumors?

Answer #4

ok nvrmind about this question now she hates me too its all good

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