Used and betrayed

you’re right…no guy should do that to someone…

but it happens sweetie. I’m sorry it happened to you.

look…I know that you were hurt he picked time with his mate over you…but let’s try to step out of the box together on this one…

the two of you getting back together was a surprise, wasn’t it? maybe he felt he’d be acting rude if he broke his plans with his friend…he could also have just wanted to spend some time with his buddy and let his mind come to a halt for a while…I’m guilty of doing that myself sometimes.

let’s think a bit more…why did you break up in the first place? did you guys need some space? did you both need some time apart?

you two were probably on pretty shaky ground before you had make up sex, and then after you asked him to met you for some time at the clubs with him ,maybe he simply wasn’t ready for it. break ups take more out of guys then you might realize and you have to consider that…

I lashed out because he was feeling cornered sweetiel. nothing more. why not try talking to him? ignoring his texts is just showing him you’re willing to sink low to get back at him…you’re looking for attention in all the wrong places…

my friend used to do this…every time she and her boyfriend had a fight she’d ignore his calls and basically show the emotional maturity of a blue berry cupcake. I finally came over to her house told her to stop feeling sorry for herself and confront the problem…

I am NOT saying his behavior was correct…not at all…but you have to be the bigger person in this relationship now. pick up your dignity and talk to him…tell him you need to know why he left and what’s going on…

be calm and rationale…do NOT raise your voice…do NOT start screaming…and do NOT stay silent. talk to him and see what’s going on…you’re not doing yourself any good hiding from him either…