How to cope with a miscarriage?

So it turns out I had a miscarriage. Second one. It’s way harder the second time around. How can I cope with it?

I know I’m young, but it was still my kid that died so please no rude comments, just how to cope with it. Please.

Answer #1

Im 16

Answer #2

for me, talking to my boyfriend about it was what has helped. and really, doesn’t matter how old you are when it happens, it still hurts. I’m 21 and it happened a few months ago. I still have a hard time with it. just, the more you talk about it, the more it helps. if you can talk to your family about it, that would be really good for you…I couldn’t. also, time really helps to heal broken hearts.

I’m worried about this happening again to you. two is terrible, but if you have a third miscarriage in a row, you may need tog o see the doctor about it if you are trying to get pregnant. something may not be functioning properly with either yourself or your mate. if you’re not trying to get pregnant, I would suggest that you start using more protection than you currently are…until you’re ready to try again for that baby. I would wait at least 3-6 months. minimum. you have to let your body have time to heal and get back to it’s cycle.

take care of yourself.

Answer #3

aww I’m so sorry to hear this. I had an early m/c in 2001. it’s heartbreaking to hear you’ve had a second one. I think a grief counsellor may help. chat to me anytime.

Answer #4

time let time heal it I wouldnt try for a couple years wait till your ready emotionaly and physicaly its tuff believe me just wait till your ready tho

Answer #5

I’m really sorry, I had a miscarraige too when I was fourteen… and it really doesnt matter how old you are, it hurts really bad you dont understand why it has to happen at all… and especially to you, since this is the second time. I actually didnt grieve until a few months after my miscarraige, when I shouldve had a big belly and be preparing for baby things. I would say time helps but even now I still get sad about it. Just know I feel for you, and Im very sorry for you loss.

Answer #6

hey,I’m 16 teen and I’m pergnant again but I had a miscarriage last year and I had to go to a councilor b/c it hurt me so bad and if you are taken it as bad as I did yuo should really get one well, but any way I’m really sorry but, hope everything gets better for you !!!

       ~$~married and I love it~$~

Answer #7

Go see a councilor. Therapy can help you develope strong coping skills. That’s really hard. I’m sorry.

Answer #8

im going through the same thing. and cant get my self together at all.