How do you tell someone you love that they are being ungrateful without sounding like a total b!tch?

dont be rude & try to explain into full detail, or take the person like to a park or somewhere peaceful & explain it too them

well just be up front Be like i dont meant to sound rude but you are being a true bitch and i just felt like i needed to tell u

When someone says something to me thats really ungrateful they’ll say something like, “ugh my mom is so mean, I got these shoes last week & my mom won’t take me back to get another pair of a different color ! ugh I hate her” I think it’s right to snap at them & say “wow thats really snobby.” I feel like if you say it to them softly & just tell them, they aren’t gonna care they will just laugh it off.

Next time the person says something ungrateful/rude like “Ugh, my mom bought me a car that wasn’t in the color I wanted!” just say “If you want a car in the right color, work for it yourself. Think about it, your mom worked very hard to buy you your very own car and you should be very thankful that your mother did that for you.” or whatever… You get the point :) if you guys love each other then that shouldn’t break your relationship or anything… Be honest, they should be able to handle it.

Just tell it to them straight. Get your point across.

just be honest with that person, tell them how it is

These things are hard to express without stirring emotions. Be mindful of the fact you may hurt some feelings. It might be unavoidable but it is a worthy cause and as long as you are talking from a place of love, i’m sure you will be forgiven. Be strong though and stand up for what you beleive in, sometimes youve just got to do it (You might get some home truths thrown back at you so be open for critisism).

it is 10% percent what you wanna say and 90% how you say it. If you approach it as a concern more than trying to sound attacking… then it won’t come across wrong.