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I look at pictures of my friends and just sigh. They all look so gorgeous no matter what pose, hairstyle or makeup theyre wearing. But when I look in the mirror I just feel repulsed. People sometimes say "oh you look lovely," or stuff like that and I just want to cry. No matter what I wear or have my hair like I just find myself to be horrible and its really getting me down.
Is there any way that anyone can think of to help me either a) feel better about myself or b) actually make myself more attractive?
I'm not saying I want to love myself and seem like I have a stick up my arse or anything, but it just really brings me down after a while and I'm really jealous of all of my friends. Also, magazines featuring amazingly stunning women doesn't help either.
So what can I do ladies? Anyone got any help?
Thanks!
You cant make yourself attractive. Because you ALREADY attractive Sweetie, you are gorgeous just the way you are. Every person is. Everyone has their flaws, no one is perfect. All these women in these magazines starve themselves and have surgery and their photos are photoshopped any way...you must know that. You shouldnt compare yourself to your friends or any one else. Look in the mirror every day. Look at yourself closely. Focus on something you like about yourself...this could be hard, or it couldnt. Even if you are just thinking, hey, my hair color isnt that bad... focus on that. Its the tiny little things. The more you look at yourself in the mirror, you will begin to notice the little things that are great about your appearance...and forget about those little flaws. weather its that you have a black heads on your nose...or you have little eyelashes, something as small as that... it will slowly disappear...and you will see yourself just for the good things. The more confident you are, the more attractive you are.
you're just being too hard on yourself. if there's something about your face you don't like, focus on the things that you DO like. like xxangelcakexx said, everyone is beautiful in their own way. looking like famous skinny people or the ones who have plastic noses and botox and fake lips and liposuction isn't a good thing. everything about them is fake, and they're not going to get anywhere in life. besides, looks aren't the most important thing about the person, they should be the least important thing about the person. :]
hey dude everyone is beautyfull in there own way and im sure your friends that you think are gorgeous nomatter what dont feel that way about themselves.
OMG I know exactly how you feel I hate being the one that never looks skinny or pretty I always come out in pictures looking horrible!
wow homie I feel the same way 2 around all of my friends but I think everyone is beautiful in their own way!!!
Try to smile when you look in the mirror. It isn't likely that you're ugly, as very few girls are..
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your really pretty! just, you need more confidence.
