Ugh why wont he leave me alone!!!

My parents split up.

In simply didn’t go see my dad. Mind you he hasn’t actually contacted me since about 8 or 9 months anyway.

There os one thing though, you cut, have depression, have suicidal thoughts… your hatred for your dad may be feeding that. Just a FYI

talk:) that’s the best thing to do really:}

he is so ignorant he acts like he know me when he doesnt he doesnt know im bi he doesnt know im depressed or that I cut, have thoughts of suicide, he doesnt know anything and he acts all smart

Soo… have you actually tried talking to him about your feelings, your problems, your school life, your friends, etc? He’s only trying to bond with you, and you’re not helping by pushing him away and labeling him as ignorant. Give him a chance, he loves you and wants to be part of your life still, or he wouldn’t have fought for a share of custody for you. Maybe if you tried talking to him like a mature adult, he will start to treat and talk to you like one.

And on another note, you should definitely speak to someone about your depression, cutting, and thoughts of suicide. Does you mom know about it? Has she tried to talk to you about it? If you speak to her about it and admit to her that you need some help (it’s totally fine to say that you need help), you can get her to get you in contact with a counselor. Or, if you are mature enough as you hope you are, you can speak to your school counselor or arrange your own appointment with a counselor/psychiatrist through a doctor’s recommendation (inform your mom later about it as she will have to pay for it, unless you can).