is it true that ppl are more attracted to ppl that dress & keep their hair done nice??

not really, but i see how it can affect it. i guess it depends how you grew up. if you were raised in the same lifestyle, then it wouldn’t affect, but in a diffrent lifestyle yeah it probly could

The second description of “scruffy, unshaven…” describes me. :( I didn’t know I was bad. Lol.

And, that, Aleksandr is why you are single….lol!

Haha, I shave….when I feel like it is required. You are so smart, you know why I’m single, lol. What else do you know about me? :O

lol..

Not all the time. I mean you don’t want to look like a complete hobo but at the same time you don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard. I can look at a guy who has like a really messy hairstyle and still find him sexy. It all depends and it also depends on how well you carry yourself too

Well, I for one, am. Aren’t you? lol

I prefer woman who like to lookd pretty. I dont know how it is in the rest of the country but woman in Oregon are too laid back. They go to the supermarket in sweats, no makeup, jesus Christ they look like hell. Women in New York dont even check the mail without makeup on. There has to be a happy medium in there somewhere. But look good because you want to , not because it is how you want others to see you.

Stalker much? haha Personally I don’t care about appearance. I just care about the mental aspects of someone. Whether we have much in common, his sense of humor, and how he treats me.

In specific, the way society portrays the perfect man or the perfect woman, is a clean cut, neat, and well kept being. We have the illusion that to be an attractive person, you must look, act and dressa certain way. But in truth the real attraction comes from the personality, and gravitorial pull bewtween to like minds. As an example you can look at me, I cant go anywhere without looking as good as I possiibly can. Im a big on designer clothes, high end fashion, and perfect hair and makeup. One I’d like to be a non conformist, and find someone not based on appearance, but by the inner beauty of the person. I just havent matured to that level yet.lol

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