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torn between the 2 of em

ok well here goes my two bst mates were dating and have recently just plit up but they both want to hang out with me but without the other and I dont want to lose either of them but they have both told me to choose between them now its gonna be hard because I have had a big crush on my male best mate for years and would do anything to keep him and im scared this will affect my judgement and I don’t want to lose the femal mate either as shes been there like sister for me but im soo torn on what to do…can anyone help???

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Answer #1

Well if you have feeling for the guy then there’s a small problem like you said yu have a crush on himand that WILL affect your judgement and well honestly your desicion has to be either you stay friends with both of them and just respect the space that they want apart or separate yourself from them both for a while so that you are not the next thing that blows out of the water. this will also help you recollect your own thoughts and allow for them to mend things alone with one another.

Hope I helped!!! : )

Answer #2

thanks djsweets but its not that simple

Answer #3

ok thats sounds a lot better thanks djsweets xx

Answer #4

I understand, im giving you the advice that I found out I had to do because at this point they will pick at any and everything and get possesive and that means you will get in the middle just because I asked you to separate doesnt mean you cant communicate with them but just try not to take sides with anything they ask.

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