Told my folks to get lost..was it called for?

I’m 30, never been close with my Dad, somewhat with my mom. They’re very selfish people, and disfunctional. I’m no angel, but I’d certainly expect more than this: My fiance recently went to prison. I was homeless at the time so I asked my mother, if he could please write to me at her address and she could pass his letters on to me. At first, she agreed it was fine. Shortly after, she called, saying she and my father talked and that it wasn’t a good idea on second thought, for my fiance to write me letters and send them to my mothers address for me. He evidently changed her mind, Without questioning her, I hung up and sent both her and my father letters, using extreme profanity, expressing they weren’t welcome at my wedding and that not accepting him was equal to not accepting me, and not to contact us. My mother is manipulative and flippant, and since having a husband at one time who was in jail herself, she’s a hypocrate. My father is very self righteous as well. I’m not perfect either, but dang…I wonder if my reaction was a little overly dramatic, or what others think of this situation and how I handled it. ?

Paula

I’ve always resented my mom, and father. They are huge hypocrates, my mom even had a husband in jail once. I’m not understanding why a parent would do this, and if my reaction as a soon to be married grown daughter, was too harsh?

HELP? Paula