To leave or not to leave?

My man and I have a child 2getha and we’ve been 2getha 4 3years.I found out that he lives with another woman.He told me that he needs a bit of time 2 sort it out.From what I hear she no longer lives there.I dont know if I should stay with him or leave him because I recently met someone else.I dont know whether the devil I know is better than the devil I dont know because I dont know this new guy very well yet.

Another problem I have is that my man doesn’t make me happy in bed.How can I tell him how to please me without hurting his feelings.

Answer #1

I would say leave him! You should be the only one. 3 years is along time and it is going to be hard to leave but.. Do you desrive what hes doing to you? ( with the other woman) I don’t know you but I think every woman desrives to be happy to the fullist! A complete 100 percent! Good luck!

Answer #2

You have been together for 3 years, have a child together and you don’t know who is living in his house? I’m sorry but thats crazy, how would you not know that? Obviously this isn’t a very communicative relationship like it should be. If he needs some time, then give him time and if you feel that hes not doing his part in the relationship then maybe you should leave. But don’t leave him because you met someone else, or because he doesn’t satisfy you between the sheets.

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