Why do taken guys need porn?

why does guys need porno when they got a gurl friend? i dont think it should be like that? i absolutly HATE it, bc like alot of other gurls, i think it is decrasful for women because the gurls that dont or cant look like that, you know how bad that makes us feel? bc apartenly thats how a “perfect” gurl should look like or be. They should have big titties, with a skinny tinny waist, good legs, and looks. but really if they get more excited looking at them, then whats the point of staying with them. i dont think my bf is opsessed but he should really consider my opionin, cause he knows i got self esteem issues with myself, and when he calls them hot them that hurts, cause i knoe i could never look like them.. it hurts and he knows it hurts me, but i mean i dont think i would mind so much if he didnt tell me he had some or that he thought they were hot. if he just got them, with out me knowing i think that would be ok. but i asked him what was soo interesting about little sluts that show off there f**kin bodies to other men that they dont even know?? he told me that it was interesting bc they got boobs, well dont there gurl friends have em to? or do they just like fake ones? if so then whats the point. id really like to know.

Answer #1

Not all guys are like this- I assure you. Some guys are turned on by visual images that they obviously don’t get every day from their girlfriends (unless they hook up with them every day, which would be a little excessive). For girls, it’s usually more about feelings and being in the moment that turns them on, but for guys visual images and stuff like porn can turn them on more. My boyfriend was never very into porn, and now that he’s been dating me for a few years he hasn’t looked at any since before we got together. However, just remember that just because your boyfriend is turned on by porn- it doesn’t mean he likes looking at those fake girls more than he likes looking at YOU. He is probably smart enough to know you’re real, and important to him, and that porn is just something silly he checks out to jack off (because frankly, guys are gross and that’s how they are.) Sorry sweetie, it’s true for the most part. Tell your boyfriend that it makes you uncomfortable when he mentions how hot these other girls are, and if he doesn’t respect that- he’s a jerk and maybe you’d be better off without him. Good luck, sorry I’m kinda rambling but I’m super tired- funmail me if you need any clarification!

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