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How to stop him before it gets too awkward?

There’s this guy that I like, and I know that he likes me too… We’ve been talking for awhile, and he’s starting to kinda odd me out. He’s never asked me out, but he’s asked me to go meet him and hang out, and we got on the subject of making out… Which i’m okay with, no problem with… But he wants to go farther than that… I’m really uncomfortable with how I look, I’m not pretty, And I’m a bit overweight. I don’t know this guy well enough to feel comfortable with him seeing me without a shirt on, let alone to let him “eat me out” which is what he’s said he wants to do… I do like him a lot, so how’s can I get him to not want to do anything more than makeout?

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Answer #1

Ok firstly, You should never be forced to go farther than you want to go, so telling him is a great ideo. Secondly, He obviosly thinks you are an attractive girl, so be happy that he wants to interact with you - even if you don’t want to go that far. So for ways for you to feel more comforatble with him, you should just take things slowly - if you want to have a relationship with him. So maybe you can just make out, but then he will want to take it further, but you don’t want to rush into him ‘eating you out’. So maybe you can go to the next step, which could be anything you feel you are most comforatble with, after making out. Also, you should tell him that you are not ready to be rushed into anything, say that you want to make small steps. :) x

Answer #2

Just say no. If you’re not comfortable with it, don’t do it. Go with your gut.

Answer #3

if he really likes u he will aceppt u as u come inside n outside. if u aint ready just tell him

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