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do you think you should be allowed to have a boyfriend and go out more if you show your responsible such as doing good in school and doing chores around the house or what would be some reason why you shouldn't be allowed to do either of those?
I think if your old enough but you have to be smart to. Because specially if your a female and sttraight guys could do so many things to get you in alot of trouble not all guys but 98% of em. you never know before you start really dateing youl say im going to be a virgin till im married or ready or w.e your excuse may be he will find someway to bring your positive side to that down. and only 64% of girls mean what they say but you are stilll learning the ropes ..i think young teens should group date with their friends to help them learn new things about dateing so they will have better relationships in the feature.:D
I understand your opinion about parents trying to protect their children , but in most cases like ive said before some children seem to be sneaky and make decisions behind their parents backs which leads them into making bad choices so i believe when it comes to relationships , parents should be more supportive and be there to guide their child through INSTEAD of not allowing them to make their own choices , and sometimes its best the child to learn the hard way , cause relationships at a young age does have it`s dissapointments that child seem not to able to deal with when it comes to that point.
I think that no. Just because when you have a boyfriend and your young love blinds you. I'm not saying that it happens with everyone, but yeah it happens. Soon enough your boyfriend will end up being everything in your life and meaby causing you not to do your homework just because you were texting him the whole time, or you were late to class because you two were making out e.c.t But sometimes there is that responsible couple that knows better you know. I'm not really sure just because actions, relationship wise varies from pearson to pearson.
no, i beleive age plays a big part in it. even if yor responisble, young kids and teens can easily be manipulated into doing soemthing hey didnt want to do, i belive its safer when there older and have more knowlege on thins that could go wrong, how o handle things properly, how to say no, ect. a lot of mothers would worry about there kids dating if its the first time there doing it, epsecially with sex being everywere in th media and kids doing things earlier than they should
I honestly think EVERYBODY should be able to make their own choices either their responsible or not , because they will eventually learn the hard way if they make a bad decision , so parents should let their child experience having relationships , going on dates , boyfriend & girlfriends UNLESS they want their child to do it behind their back cause in most cases , that`s what happens.
I was allowed to date as a teen, and i also plan on allowing my children to date as long as they prove they are responsible and keep their priorities straight. Dating is important when your younger, its how you gain love life experience and how you learn what you want and dont want in a partner when your older. I wouldnt take that away from my children.
Age does play a big part in dating. I was so mad that my parents didnt let me date until i was 16 but they were so right to do that. I was mature too. much more mature then most girls my age but i was so not ready to deal with the pressure that comes from boys that are so young. you have so many years to be in relationships, take it slow
I think that you should be allowed to date when you're responsible, mature, and are properly educated on safe sex and all of the other things that come with relationships. I wouldn't want any of my children to date below the age of 14. I wasn't allowed to until I was 15/16ish myself.
I was allowed to date when I was 13 I wish now that I'm 33 that my parents wud have kept me from datein, I was mature and responsible but I think they shud have made me wait a couple of more yrs instead of being 13
I think parents try to protect and guide there children from past mistake and successes so they don't have the hard knocks that they had. It is only fullish not to learn from history, or someone else mistakes.
i do!! im 13 and i went to the movies alone w/my friend and her bf. it would have been fun if the dude wasnt suck a spaz lol.
yep definitely, if ther trustworthy, then ther parents shud trust them, cos sum parents r 2 overprotective and stuff
I agree, I think that school, and progression in life should come first. Then later in life you can find that spaz.
i think age doesnt matter! its whenever you want to and when you feel comfortable dating!!
Wow, I am sorry, I forgot to look at the age group I am talking to.
if u have been doing good andu can handle it i think you should
it dont matter i talk about grown up stuuff cuz im mature
im 14 and my first girl was like 10 i was to
I was not able to have a GF till I was 16.
I agree.
