Well we did go out this summer. He said that we broke up because of distance. He used to live in this town but recent events *cough* his mother *cough* made him move. He is almost 20 but is afraid of leaving his mom alone even though they have relatives where they live and he could visit her. I am 15 going to be 16 in about 8 months (May 1). He told me that if he still lived in the same town as me he would gladly date me. When we were dating I did act clingy for the reason being that I knew he was going to be moving and I wanted to spend as much time with him as possible before he left. He lives an hour away but he says it's 2 hours (I looked it up on mapquest and I was right... 1 hour and 13 minutes). I really love him. We broke up about 2 months ago in late June. I alway dream of him and when I last talked to him on the phone because I was upset he made me feel a lot better. I talked to him about my family emotionally abusing me and always trying to make up with it with either buying me what I want or pleading for forgiveness. I also asked how he was and to tell me about his day. Our phone conversation was pretty interesting. My friend LeAnn recently said she will give me rides up when she could. He works about all the time... 7a.m. to 4/5 p.m. and around 7-8p.m he goes back. He says he occasionally gets a day off but hardly ever. He said we would hardly get to see each other and bla bla bla. I told him as long as we communicated somehow (email and occasional phone calls) I would be fine with it. I graduate in about 2 1/2 years because I am graduating early. I am a sophomore btw. So my senior year after we let out for X-mas break I am done. What do I do. He says he does have feelings for me but then he doesn't. My friend Shawn has that problem with his woman who is in a different town. Then when he sees her he isn't confused anymore. Could it be that? Could it be the one hour distance between us and the fact I haven't seem him for about a month? Please help a girl that is madly in love. I did date after him and was with other men but I couldn't find love in my heart for them so I had to leave them. So I know what I feel is 100% real. Help... I will forever love you if you do help me.
Sweetie, love cannot be one-sided! It takes two to be in love!
An hour is not that long of a drive. If he really wanted to be with/see you, he would make time no matter what, but he isnt. Which means he doesnt feel the same way about you, as you do for him. Its obvious, but you cant see that because you are so caught up in him, that your not seeing things clearly! He has feelings for you, but then he doesnt? Sorry, but he is just being nice. You have to understand that if he really truly liked you, he would do EVERYTHING in his power to talk to you, see you, and wanna be with you! DIstance has NOTHING to do with this. ("Absence makes the heart grow fonder".)Hes just not into you anymore! There is nothing you can do to change his feelings about you. You had a past with him, but now its over.
Alot can happen between now, and when you graduate. If its meant to be, you'll be together. If not, then you have to just let him go! Dont waste your life waiting for him, because you could be missing out on finding Mr. Right!
ONE: If it was true love you prolly wouldn't of broken up
TWo: I know I have true love because my boyfriend and I have been seperated for a long time for the distance of 1336 miles from my house to his .. And We are doing just fine... I will be with him after he finishes high school.. so if this guy really loved you he'd wait for you.