The one guy

well you should be pretty happy right now as hes just told you he feels the same way about you as you do about him id say just wait untill hes ready to be in a relationship if you cant wait, maybe ask him whats keeping him from going out with you now just so you know why it cant be right now

Not ready? I think that if any guy truly loves a girl, NOTHING would stop him from wanting to be with her, not put her on hold until hes ready! I feel that if a girl is willing to wait for a guy to decide what he wants, it only makes her appear desperate, which never really plays well with guys. I would cut back on the conversations. Pull back enough to make him notice but not enough to destroy your friendship. He might just be taking you for granted right now thinking you’ll always be there for him. And you pulling back a little might be all it takes to let him know he’s not calling all the shots.

You’ve already dated once, and broke up for whatever reason, and you dont want that happening again. You first need to take care of yourself right now, thats whats most important.