The male species

My boyfriend will kiss me, hold my hand, put his arm around my back and on my leg. He’ll also say quite a lot “I love you” but just, girls like to hold hands and all the stuff above more than guys. Guys - do you like to hold hands and stuff, but prefer to just chill out? because sometimes I get the feeling he doesnt want to, and thats fine with me though. And girls - do you feel this way with your boyfriend sometimes? thanks. Xo

Answer #1

guys are not always in the mood to cuddle…neither are some girls…sometimes you just have to accept it. I know out of the two of us, I want to cuddle more…not to say my guys doesn’t like being cuddled, but sometimes it takesd a little “nudge” to get him to realize it…

some guys are told showing affection is a sign of weakness on some level, so often times it takes a bit for a guy to be comfortable with cuddling…olr they just don’t know how to be “squishy” or whatever…

I mean girls are raised, either on purpose or not…to be nuturing and gentle and kind loving people…guys are given toy guns and soliders to play with…I know this isn’t always the typical thing to happen, but in many societies it is…and it makes guys believe they always have to be tough on some level…

anyhow…look…just gently remind your guy you need the holding, hugging and cuddling…try the whole “head butt” trick I use…seems to work for me pretty well…

Answer #2

I mean, I am a really affenctionate girl, And I guess it depends on what kind of guy you date. Some guys are into that. Like my boy-friend..now is okay with that uneless hes busy. But thats just him.

I think it depends on what guy you date. Well

Good luck

P.S: Watch out. If you like cuddeling make sure you find a guy that like its to. Good luck, girl.

Answer #3

First of all your subject for this question is hilarious! Well actually my boyfriend always has his arm around me where ever we go. I think its just because we both love hugs and cuddles. However sometimes I feel like he wants to do it a lot more than I do and I’m the one getting kinda annoyed.. I guess everyone is different right?

Answer #4

sometimes I get the feeling that my guy doesn’t feel like being uberly cuddly…and its okay…I’ve never been one to push the issuse…but every so often if I want to cuddle…and if he seems oblivous to my cuddle needs I sit down next to him, lean over and butt my head gently on his shoulder…

normally this gets a reaction, mainly him laughing and bit and hugging me…if it doesn’t work…and I have a inkling that he does know I’m there, he just likes teasing me…then I make what he calls a “indignant snort” sound and ram my head into his shoulder…which normally results in a wrestling match…

I dunno sometimes guys just don’t want to cuddle or hug…its a guy thing and sometimes you just have to accept it…

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