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I met this girl in chemistry last year, well I met her thourgh a friend. Well anyways we started talking and I've found out she is a good little church girl. I also had her in gym thats were we mostly talked. I've found out who she liked which really hurt but one of the boys that she liked was a boy who teased me when I was younger a bit of a bully and I told her that. She kinda of believed me but she didnt want to I think. Well thorugh out the year I borught her breakfest, she would see me and come give me a hug always sit next to me on the bus smile when I looked at her laugh when I wasnt funny. A year passed and everyday I regreted not saying anything about how I felt about her. Well I heard a couple of friends who liked her also telling me she was dating the guy who teased me. I dint want to believe it I thought they wanted me to get away from her. I stopped drinking and smoking for her but she doesnt know that. Well then I saw a msg that brought back memerios of her going out with him, I wasent sure if they were. I brought it up in coversation with her boyfreind and he confirmed it. That hurt really much I couldnt decide what to do. their was still some comfort that I knew she was a good church girl and I thought she aint kissing him yet but my other friend told me that they are cause she told him. That just killed me, I cant see her cause every time I see her I imagine them making out. What should I do? I had the impression that she liked me but she didnt know that I liked her. What should I do? Should I still be her friend. But once I learned she had a boyfriend I thought of starteing to smoke and dirnk again need to forget about her. Well should I avoid her now or what?
ok tell her. you have to even if she says no, and I have been that girl who says no in the past, you deal with any trouble you have afterwards because at least you tried. even if you aint together and her boyfriend gives you a lot of trouble suck it up. im finishing highschool and I only just told a guy I liked for 5 years that I loved him and now we are together. you have to tell her , and p.s thats so funny u'd have a hard time finding one religious person in my school except my religious studies teacher
You dont need to avoid her, but if your trying to get her to break up with her boyfriend for you, then DONT! I'm sure she only took your kindness as friendship, and nothing more. Its obvious that she likes her boyfriend, and until they break up, you should respect their relationship and keep your feelings to yourself.
...back off... move on...
She has a boyfriend, so she's off limits. At the most, you are casual acquaintences. Anything more will just cause problems.
