Okay, so I have this friend, And we have been friends for years now.
But theres a problem.
Everything I do, she seems to do also;
I try to have my OWN individuality, but I dont think she gets that, I dress in my own fashions, she sees it, she buys it, I have my own unique communication/parsonality style, she does the same, the wacky craxy things I do, say, act, dress, and EVERYTHING else she could pssibly do the same SHE DOES> which makes me think shes also going for my boyfriend who also seems ot be getting into her.
I am changing my hair an di wanted it this way for a logn time. So today I asked her on MSN if I should dye it this weekend or at the end of the month. Just to see what she would say.
SO heres what went down:
Me: Should I dye my hair soon or later?
her: I think you shoudl dye it later.
me: Are you dying yours too
Her: Oh I dont know.
Me: Oh well okay
And so on. She evens get this fake attitude and voice when she wants or is gettin gattention and I dont wan tot be mean or anything but she does. She gets upset when I hang out with other people like my best friend abby or people who dont like her or she doesnt liek it when I ivvite other people over...When I invite her over too so I I dont make her feel left out or anythign she does this thing where its all like '...Remember when we...' over AND OVER AND OVERRR'
and I dont know what to I am getting called 'her' like her name...id ont want to mention her name actually. But people think I look like her whne I totally look different, they say I act like her, dress liek her and sound like her. WHNE I DONT.
Im sick of it. SHES ME , IM NOT HER.
What can I do about this. Its sucks.
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT! Seriously, if it bugs you, you should be able to sit down and tell her. Express how it makes you feel, and how much it frustrates you. You could even offer to help her develop her own style, if it means she won't be copying you.
tel her how you feel en tel her you dont wana loose her...tel her on msn when itz a wkend or suma hols en eni looong hols...face 2 face iz hard