The accomplice

My best friend is cheating on her husband. They have a kid together. This is her second affair in 6 months. She seems to think it is the best thing ever and has no remorse. I am the only one who knows. Should I tell her husband even though he is not my friend? (I like the guy and think maybe I would want to know if I was him.) Help!

Answer #1

You are absolutely right. Thank you.

Answer #2

Before you do anything, consider what you have to lose in all this.

If you tell her husband, you will undoubtedly lose a friend. Morally, he has the right to know and the secret is making you uncomfortable.

I agree, he should know, specifically if she feels no remorse, but it shouldn’t be you to tell him. I recommend trying to find a way to let him know anonymously, or arranging things somehow so that he finds out on his own…try to keep yourself as far out of this as possible.

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