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That stupidd guy again =[[ please help me!

Omgsh! Im like in need of a heroe! This guy I really like(well I suppose) well I’ve never really talked to him in my life. We always fight!! Im serious && wats even more weird is that he always starts the fight! Like today for example: I was walking through the hallways totally normal && me & him were the only ones in the hallway.then well ignored him pretty well && when he was next to me he called me a b!tch!! I was like “youu!!” & he dropped his pencil in the hallway & I heard he whispered somethingg I couldnt understand & I told him”shut up!!” I swear im so pissed! He says he “hates me” but if you”hate” a person you would not be staring at them!! Because he stares at me all the time! & when I caught him he looks away really quick. When I hug another guy he starts telling me stuff && I dont understand his attitude! Sometimes I feel he likes me & sometimes I dont because hes always such a jerk! He flirts with girls only around me & it makes me mad, but not because he huggs them but becuse he tries to grab my attention! My friend told me she was writing this note on her bus(she rides the same bus as him) && she wrote”angie + sebastian 4ever” && the guy I like said “who the heck is sebastian?” && my friend told him”its the guy angie is going out with” he only rolled his eyes & turned around. When the guy I like was leaving the bus my friend wrote another note saying “angie + esteban 4ever” && gived it to his cousin. He gived it to esteban & he was like”I dont like her she looks like a boy” & his cousin was like” come on you know you like her” & “esteban” just looked away. My question is.. Why is he acting like such a jerk with me? Sorry if this is too long but I had to say excatly what happened, please help me anybodyy? Thankks ;)

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Answer #1

he’s probably jealous of the attention that you are giving to the others. & some guys do tend to be mean to the girl if they like the girl it’s because, they dont know how to act around them, so they just act rudely. if he’s mean and being a jerk, just leave him alone and dont talk to him.

Answer #2

ok bbz, he sounds like hes getting mixed signals, or hes unsure of himself. That makes me sound like I’m sticking up for a fellow guy, but I’m NOT, I know that your a smart girl, I say talk 2 him properly. if he continues to act that way simply cut him out of your life b/c hes wasting your time. but it kind of dus sound like he might have the same feelings 4 you as you do for him. b/c hes trying to get you to notice him and stuff like that, so I say go with your gut reaction, and try something fast because the good things never last and the bad ones never end. hope I helped kiddo

Answer #3

Well, it sounds like this guy is very emotionally insecure and doesn’t know how to act around you so that’s why whenever you flirt with other guys, that sets him off. If he continues to fight and argue with you, there is no sense in staying with him. If you like someone, you don’t act immature about things. Not only does this guy act emotionally insecure, but, he also seems like on the immature side. Then guys your age are immature and don’t grow up until later if ever! He also probably doesn’t want to admit he likes you so that’s why he’s acting like a jerk toward you. I’d wait and see what happens and if he continues to be a jerk toward you, I’d move on. There are other guys you can hang out with and are better then him. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer #4

heard of the phrase ‘treat ‘em mean… keep ‘em keen’ well dats wot he is doing… ask him straight out… whether he likes you or not and if he dont then move on.. an you will soon know whether he likes you or not… he sounds alittle of the jelous, emotionally unstable type..

Answer #5

When it comes to him getting mad at you for talking to other guys,he’s jealous about ti cause he thinks your flirting with them. I think it would be a good idea to leave him because true friends and boyfriends don’t start fights or arguments,they talk things out when it comes to that point. Try talking to him about it,if he refuses,leave him,and move on.

Answer #6

It sounds like he is afraid to so his true emotions.Guys like that really needs to know how you feel about them.If you really like him then you must stop trying to make him jealous.Talk to him in private and tell him how you feel.Wish you all the best life has to offer and I hope it works out.

Answer #7

I don’t know

I nvr been in that situation before

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