Talking with my girlfriend

Okay well me and my girlfriend talk…a lot and I love it, we talk about many things…but I feel as if its getting more sexual as every day passes…I am not sure if she is just doing this because of me or not but I would like advice on how/what I should talk about with her and stuff or like find out why she is talking sexually a lot…could it be that she is just getting horny more?? It would be very much appreciated because I want the best for her and for her to not feel like she has to do anything she doesn’t want to. (by the way we are both virgins, not as in we haven’t done anything but that we have done those things just not actual sex)

Answer #1

Ok, well all you have to do is just talk to her about what she is comfortable about talking about, if she has no problem with the current conversation, then let it be, but if so, then make sure she is comfortable about the convo. :] good luck.

Answer #2

thank you. also though sometimes its me who starts talking like that…then she might just go along with it…what should I do then… she doesn’t like to not dude it because she knows I like it…

Answer #3

your welcome :] hmm well you really need to pay attention to her body launguage at that point! sometimes girls will go along with something they might not be comfortable with if they know it will make the guy happy. so if shes not telling you that she feels uncomfortable, try and read her body launguage! expressions on her face might help, and if you feel shes resisting you a bit even, or trying to slow things down. hope that helped

Answer #4

well if shes bringing up the sexual talk then its a good indicator that she wants to move a step further. but you really need to ask her, just ask her while your talking or doing something else if she wants to go a bit further. or something along those lines and re-assure her that you dont want to pressure her into doing anything she doesnt want to do hope that helped!

Answer #5

nono, thats not it at all…plus I dont have this problem anymore :P. she isn’t ready and neither am I..well…okay I am about 50%+ rdy XD but yah… its all fine now

Answer #6

Well my opinion from a girls perspective she probably thinks you want to have sex or be more sexual with her if you start to talk sexual to her, but if she starts then maybe its a hint that she’s ready to have sex. But yeah if its her that’s constantly talking that way to you then she’s prpbably ready. But just talk to her about it that’s the best thing to do:)

Answer #7

Awww your a sweet young man for looking out for her interests. I agree with jazz. X

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