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So I´m sort of seeing this guy. And I just think he sooo amazing. But the problem is that it´s almost always I who start the conversation and I´m kinda getting sick of it. I know he´s into me, but still it´s almost always me. Why and what can I say to make him talk more and not just me.

Kind of a complicated question, but I hope you can still help :D

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Answer #1

stir up a convo that’s deep, if he’s your boyfriend, he should be able to talk more and express himself and not give you a one short sentence answer. talk about life! lol… my boyfriend and I can go on for hours about that, we talk about our past and what we hope for in the future… or if you’re ever in a jam of thinking about what you should talk about, play 21 questions!! :D I’ve almost been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I can still learn some stuff about him from playing 21 questions =) if you feel comfortable with it, you can also tell him how you feel, towards you alway having to start of the convo between you and him… tell him that you’re now a couple and that he shouldn’t be shy to stir up a convo with you… he can talk about anything he likes, you’re there to listen =)

hope that helped ya!

Answer #2

he might feel shy and intimidated by you, try to make him very comfortable so he can just be himself and start talking. also remind him how much you care about him so it makes him feel better about himself, maybe hes just a little insecure and doesn’t want to say the wrong thing

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