How to get over the little stuff?

I always worry about the little details and always ask alot of questions and I know its driving people over the edge so how can i just relax and let things take care of themselves? Like today my friend just registered his new car and everything and i asked questions about like everything and it got him really annoyed, but i really didnt do it on purpose I just want to know…..alot apparently. I dont wannapush anyone away with constant nagging so is there any way i could just take a step back, maybe look at the big picture or something? I’m always so stressed over little things, help ):

Answer #1

hey i think sometimes that is good like you ask alot cuz u care n i wud wanna b informed they probably get mad bcuz there careless and they didnt get all the info lol i think if dats ur way of being its u everyone u love n loves u knows dat by now but if u wanna change i guess wen u get da urge to nag just keep it to urself lol also just step back and let things flow just wen dey need u b der or maybe instead of asking them questions directly go find the info for urself so in case of a problem u can kno wat 2 do good luck=} hey i wud wanna have a friend like u =P

Answer #2

Here’s how you decide whether something is important or not. I tend to be extremely detail oriented, so I tend to do the same thing, but there’s a time and a place for it. So, how important is the question. What happens if you get it wrong. What are the potential consequences. Usually the answers will come to you if you just step back and take a moment. So, for example, the car registration. What is the sort of ‘important’ information you need to know. Well, when and where are the big ones. What papers you need. The rest you can probably figure out on your own. After you’ve read through, and you have additional questions, you can always go back. Something you have to realize is that there are very few things in life where you cant go back to clarify. So get the important information, and then deal with the rest as it comes. If you’re being annoying (and it’s ok, been there, done that), you’re probably asking questions that were unnecessary. You’d have figured it out or the answers would have come to you if you’d just sat down and gone through the process yourself. You dont need every single bit of information before starting something. You can always go back and ask later.

Answer #3

if thats who you are, dont feel bad about yourself. they dont know you like you know yourself. ….

Answer #4

take deep breaths and talk to someone about it like best friend if its a memory if its like a lie or something else talk to the person about it

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