Should I stop trying to get him to choose me?

Just remember that you can’t make some one love you but he might still choose you , I just like to think you can’t change things and that everything happens for a reason

if he likes you, he will choose you himself, just be yourself, that will allow him to decide if he really likes you, if your not yourself, he might fall in love with the wrong person, stop going out of your way to get him to notice you, just be you for you :)

I’ve been there hun. My sons real father. He was so back and forth with me I finally put my foot down and stopped. I am now married to a wonderful man while he is living a very lonley life. The thing is he never changed and it sounds like you are waiting for him to change, it won’t happen. When someone wants you they will do anything to be with you because love is a strong thing.

Call off the pursuit. And let him pursue you for a change.

If you’ve tried and he knew your intentions….. then stop. He can either be comfortable in making you wait or not interested. By stop pursuing him it makes him think that you are getting over him and moving on (which rightly should be your intention) He will either come back to you (cause no one realizes what they have until they lost it) or not. Either way it’s the best for you.

If you’ve tried and he knew your intentions….. then stop. He can either be comfortable in making you wait or not interested. By stop pursuing him it makes him think that you are getting over him and moving on (which rightly should be your intention) He will either come back to you (cause no one realizes what they have until they lost it) or not. Either way it’s the best for you.

yeah stop this all.. dont loose your self respect let him go , if he is your he will come back

look… if he likes you then he’s gunna choose you. but if you keep forcing him or trying to get him to choose you how do you know what he’s feeling. he has to make a decision for himself

Never give up…play hard to get

Thats actually what I’ve been doing, its been working great lol