Stolen from

hey! My friend or ex- friend I say, stole this ipod from me.I let her see it and then she wanted me to go outside with her and when I threw it in my bed, she grabbed it. I did not see it, because I was changing my clothes, of course! Later on I could not find it anywhere, so I thought I lost it and was crying and panicking and me and my family searched everywhere in my house for it, but we still could not find it. Finally, I went to her house to ask her where she last saw it, and she started acting all weird and told me to come inside her apartment/ room so I did and then inside there she brought it to me. She said that it was in her coat hood, which her coat was nowhere near my room which had the ipod in it, and she was going to bring it home to me tomorrow. When I turned it on, it had no battery when it did earlier that day, and she had the settings program on which meant she was trying to change something. do you think I should forgive her and be friends with her again or what! have you ever been stolen from! TELL ME YOUR OPINION!

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Answer #1

We all make mistakes - the important thing was that she tried, in her own way, to right the situation. Maybe she didn’t come right out and admit it, but she did give it back instead of carrying on the lie, which meant she felt guilt - you don’t feel guilt unless you actually care.

The hardest thing sometimes is to tell the truth, so we often make things up to soften the blow.

If you value her as a friend, then forgive her and just be a little more observant from now on.

Answer #2

oh no, I can recharge the battery! lol. sorry I didnt clarrify that. its just that made me sooo mad, I mean seriously friends dont do that to other friends, and I really think that I might just do give her a boot!

Answer #3

WOW that Is pathetic
Make her earn back your friendship and trust. I usually make a drama when my friends arent loyal.. and we all know not to do stuff like that. We borrow outfits.. I dont see why she couldnt just have asked to borrow your ipod

Answer #4

Wow shes pathetic. Is this someone you really want to be around? Someone you cant trust & has stolen from you? A “friend” wouldnt do that. I think she needs to get her act together. The desicions up to you if you want to let her in your life. If this were me id give her the boot.

Goodluck :)

Answer #5

I wouldn’t unless and until she tell me the entire story and why she would betray my trust like that - certainly buy a new battery also and APOLOGIZE !!