When do you step up to defend your GF verbally and when is it just teasing?

Answer #1

Teasing is only ok in small doses….you step up when it’s crossed the line from teasing to meaness.

Answer #2

If you know she is sensitive to teasing, you shouldn’t let it happen no matter what, I don’t let anybody talk mess about my girl no matter how light it is.

Answer #3

She is fine with some teasing, but last time someone insulted her behind her back, I almost broke his jaw. hes licky he looked down. i hit his forehead. and hes brittish, so it hurt.

Answer #4

When it comes to insulting, don’t tolerate it. I don’t at all.

Answer #5

it really shouldnt be happening in the first place, and while teasing might be ok soemtimes, i wouldnt take it. though you should never use physical violence as the first option, because it just cretaes more problems. you need to tell a teacher/principal if its happening at school so they can seperate the two, maybe change their classes and tell the teasing child off. otherwise either ignore the person teasing because they probably will get bored after a while, or simply tell them to “f*ck off”. teasing leads to worse things, so the child whos teasing you will usually just move on to insaulting and then worse. which is why its best to stop it happening before or as it starts. she shouldnt have to deal with being teased in the first place

Answer #6

If someone is saying something that’s upsetting your girlfriend (or teasing too much), there’s nothing wrong with stepping in at any point. If you don’t want to cause a scene you could always pull the person who’s doing the teasing aside to talk.

You could say something like “Hey __. I just wanted to talk to you about something quickly. Do you have a minute?” And if they say sure, say something like “I know that you were joking around with (name of girlfriend), but it seems like some of your jokes are upsetting her a little bit. Is it okay if you try to tone it down a little?”

If you don’t want to do that, you could always throw a line in after the teasing comment saying something like “heyy, don’t be so mean!” with a laugh, so it doesn’t sound over serious. It always works for me. (:

Answer #7

i would tell them off if it was for me, but when its for my GF, its more important. bullsh*t to “talk to the principal”

Answer #8

I almost knocked him out, but he actually understood. he turned out to be a pretty cool guy, and he didnt get me suspended like i thought he would

Answer #9

if they say sumthing and and ur gf look up set or uncomferterble step in and says sumthing if it is a guy making fun of her kick his ass

Answer #10

They are being pretty immature, considering your age.You should let them know. Or just give them a look with pity. No one wants to be the immature one.

Answer #11

no offense

Answer #12

They r right

Answer #13

kick his ass the first time

Answer #14

You step in right when its happening. You want your girlfriend to feel safe with you and know your dependable and care for her, right? then you should do it right when it happens. Girls wanna be able to rely on their bf’s. Even if she brushes if off on the outside you never know how it makes her feel on the inside.

Answer #15

defend at all times!!!

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